×

10 Nerdy Fandoms Women Find Attractive & 10 They Don't


10 Nerdy Fandoms Women Find Attractive & 10 They Don't


The Hottest Fandoms

From Marvel to Anime, nerdy fandoms are bound to win people’s hearts. After all, they feature exotic places, daring adventures, and quirky, memorable characters. However, women certainly find some fandoms more interesting and attractive than others. What that means is that if you have these fandom interests in common, it’ll be much easier to connect with the opposite gender.

A group of warhammers on a table with a building in the backgroundSamuel Fortin on Unsplash

1. Marvel

The MCU characters Loki, Bucky, Captain America, and Spider-Man all have sizeable female fandoms. Loki is known for his devil-may-care attitude and unpredictability. Bucky often exhibits a broody intensity that many find alluring. Captain America has a chivalrous demeanor that is attractive to many. Spider-Man, meanwhile, has an adolescent quality that some fans are drawn to.

a close up of a spider man with glowing eyesHector Reyes on Unsplash

2. Harry Potter

The Harry Potter fandom has been appealing to women through a magical world, deep friendship, and enchanting characters. In particular, fans were fascinated by the charm of complicated characters such as Harry, Draco, and Snape because of their struggles and development throughout the series. In addition, it allows fans to experience attractive nostalgia and awe, making the fandom simultaneously emotional and romantic.

a harry potter logo on a piece of paperTuyen Vo on Unsplash

3. Vampires

Fans of vampire fandoms such as Twilight, The Vampire Diaries, and True Blood share a fascination with the genre's themes of danger and romance. The vampire characters are typically aloof, powerful, and vulnerable, appealing to female fans on a number of levels. So, if you’re into this fandom, you’ll have a lot to talk about.

a person holding an open book in their handsLoren Cutler on Unsplash

Advertisement

4. Star Wars

Star Wars fandom comes with a strong gravitational pull that attracts a lot of women to characters like Kylo Ren, Anakin, and The Mandalorian. There's a compelling chemistry that stems from the admixture of their darkness and vulnerability. Add to that the gorgeous, epic emotional saga that captures a lot of fans.

a man that is standing in the darkVenti Views on Unsplash

5. The Hunger Games

The fandom of The Hunger Games is still going strong. Peeta and Finnick are still fan favorites. Peeta is known for his kindness, loyalty, and quiet strength. Finnick is well-known for his charm, confidence, and the fact that he is soft on the inside.

people in a street during daytimePyae Sone Htun on Unsplash

6. K-Pop

K-pop groups such as BTS and Stray Kids have been successful at cultivating female-dominated fandoms characterized by high levels of passion, creativity, and community involvement. The combination of music, fashion, and storytelling creates a cultural experience that women find exciting and immersive.

woman in gray hijab and white and black plaid long sleeve shirtIrham Setyaki on Unsplash

7. Doctor Who

Doctor Who fandom is known for appealing to women. There are a number of factors that make the series particularly amenable for shipping. Doctor Who blends action-adventure, humor, and a classic fairytale romance. It features appealing characters such as the Doctor, who combine wit, bravery, compassion, and vulnerability.

black and brown dome machineCharlie Seaman on Unsplash

8. Pokemon

The Pokémon fandom has an endearing quality that many women find appealing. The nostalgia, combined with the adventurous spirit and the joy of discovery, is very charming. Fans of Pokémon are often quite attached to the characters and will have their favorites, such as Pikachu and Eevee.

a stuffed toy sitting on top of a wooden benchAkin Cakiner on Unsplash

9. DC Heroes

Women are drawn to the DC heroes fandom because of classic characters like Batman, Superman, Wonder Woman, and Aquaman. These DC heroes are the perfect combination of power, ambiguity, and sensitivity to make them wildly attractive. The broody, violent narratives of DC only serve to add to their dangerous allure.

man in black jacket and pants standing on roofEmmanuel Denier on Unsplash

Advertisement

10. Disney

Disney fandom is magical to women because of its classic stories, enchanting worlds, and beloved characters. From swoon-worthy heroes and villains to smart, brave heroines, Disney captivates with its charm, depth, and emotional resonance. Nostalgia, fantasy, and feel-good storytelling make Disney endlessly enchanting.

Now that we’ve talked about fandoms women love, here are 10 that they don’t find all that attractive.

Disney Castle, SingaporeJorge Martínez, instagram @jormtz9 on Unsplash

1. Naruto

Although Naruto is immensely popular, some female fans might not be as drawn to characters who exhibit perpetual recklessness. Moreover, characters who rely heavily on brute power or aggression, and there are far more male-oriented characters than those for women to latch onto.

blue and yellow lego mini figureHigor Hanschen on Unsplash

2. Game of Thrones

While the high fantasy allure of Game of Thrones makes it quite an interesting watch, it’s not a fandom women particularly love. The show’s great and all, but the fans can be a bit intense and almost a little condescending with their knowledge and theories. Plus, it can be a hard watch for some.

aerial view of bridge by the body of waterAlvy Martinez on Unsplash

3. Star Trek

Star Trek is an iconic sci-fi franchise full of everything from space exploration to futuristic technology and moral dilemmas. While fans are deeply invested in the lore and debate everything from technical details to starship design, there are some downsides. Women typically don’t enjoy the competitive trivia or how dismissive the fandom can get of others’ opinions.

Star Trek action figureStefan Cosma on Unsplash

4. Warhammer

Warhammer is a tabletop wargame and a fictional universe of grimdark fantasy lore, collectible miniatures, and tactical combat. Hobbyists may enjoy painting models, learning rules, and arguing about lore details. Women might not get along with men who love Warhammer if they're ultra-competitive, obsessive, or dismissive of non-gaming interests.

a close up of a bunch of toys on a tableSamuel Fortin on Unsplash

5. Dragon Ball

Dragon Ball is a popular long-running anime with large-scale fights, powerful transformations, and heroic adventures. Dragon Ball fans love to discuss power levels, character developments, and fighting techniques. However, the action-oriented narratives and graphic violence tailor it more to the male gaze.

A close up of a dragon ball action figureCAIO DELAROLLE on Unsplash

Advertisement

6. Fortnite

Fortnite is a widely popular online battle royale video game with building mechanics, seasons, events, and competitive gameplay. Fans can invest hours into strategizing, building skills, or following patch notes. Women won't enjoy a man who plays Fortnite if he is hyper-competitive, toxic in online communities, or too obsessed with gaming rankings over social life.

a colorful llama ornament hanging from a christmas treeWTFast on Unsplash

7. Arrowverse

The Arrowverse refers to a shared television universe where shows like Arrow, The Flash, and Supergirl overlap. Fans compare crossovers, character arcs, and comic book history. While the show often orients itself toward female audiences, many women got bored of the plot holes and soap opera feel.

a bird on a stickBalint Mendlik on Unsplash

8. Genshin Impact

Plenty of women love Genshin Impact, but the fandom can be quite intense. For context, Genshin Impact is a free open-world action RPG gacha game that features elemental combat and character progression with a large focus on lore and narrative. The player base tends to engage in character optimization, completionism, in-game event activities, and speculating about the story.

logoJonathan Kemper on Unsplash

9. Dark Souls

Dark Souls is an action RPG series known for its punishing difficulty, expansive world-building, intense combat, and rich lore. Dark Souls players frequently commiserate with one another on strategies, boss fights, and obscure narrative details. Women may not like Dark Souls men if they are hyper-competitive or gatekeep the game due to difficulty.

solar eclipseJordon Conner on Unsplash

10. One Piece

One Piece is a popular long-running manga and anime series about pirates searching for adventure, treasure, and friendship in a big world. Fans can be quite invested in the lore, character histories, and mysteries of the plot. Ironically, the creator once stated that the manga series targets male audiences and that he doesn’t care for romance.

woman in yellow dress figurineMelvin Chavez on Unsplash